Archive for September, 2008

Hey, History Isn’t Boring Anymore

Tuesday, September 16th, 2008

Hey, History Isn’t Boring Anymore! – A Creative Approach to Teaching the Civil War is an interactive book for middle level readers. Kelly Ann Butterbaugh has written a book with twelve chapters that encourage everyone to look at history “in an entirely different way.”

The author asks such questions as how women’s quilts impacted the Civil War? Did women really stitch together their dresses to make a hot air balloon? Throughout the text are sprinkled many questions, and suggestions for student activities. Kelly earned an M.Ed., and is a seasoned English teacher of ten years in public schools, and five years, teaching writing, at the college level.

By turning learning into an active experience, she proves that history does not have to be boring. Just glancing at the book, it is apparent that she wants students to “think historically.” The 107 page book, published by White Mane Publishing, 717-532-2237, is a gem. There are photos throughout the pages, and an appealing cartoon-like cover.

Hey, History Isn’t Boring Anymore is a great resource for teachers, and for students who are involved in the discovery of history. As one of her references, Kelly cites my article, “Gunboat Quilts, Fundraisers for the Confederacy,” published both on Quilter’s Muse website, and in The Citizen’s Companion (Jun/Jul. 2007). (A more comprehensive article with authentic Gunboat Quilt photos appeared in The Quilter magazine, initially.)

For more information, visit www.kellybutterbaugh.com

Patricia Cummings

How Nice It Is

Sunday, September 14th, 2008

How nice it is to hear music, when none is playing!

How good it is to see promise, in a child’s eyes.

How good it is to go at life, giving it your all and not holding back.

How fine it is to do your best, and to be rewarded with kindness, not jealousy.

How fun it is to dance under a moonlight sky, awed by the stars’ wonders.

How great it is to have a few close friends, who really understand.

How terrific it is to eat a piece of fresh apple pie, baked with care.

How grand to wake up, morning after morning, to face the challenges of each new day.

Be a blessing to others; cast off your infantile, me-centered universe.

Joy is there for the reaching, and in stretching out our arms to others, we re-create ourselves.

Patricia Cummings

9-11-2001

Friday, September 12th, 2008

Funny, how things can get away from us … like time. Today, as I was writing the date in a museum guest book, I asked innocently enough, what day it is. When one is self-employed, one does not always keep up with such things. The answer came back as, “September the 11th,” and along with it, a flood of memories. That pivotal date of confusion and fear, when our homeland was under attack, will never be erased from memory.

On 9-11-2008, all the immediate tears already have been shed. Some people, who were left widowed, have remarried. The injured have returned to work, in some cases, and the New York site looks as if there had never been buildings there at all.

Many children have to rely on photos to “remember” Daddy or Mommy. In that one day, the dreams and hopes of many individuals were forever dashed, but some lucky ones escaped with their lives and the terrifying thoughts that they might not see another day.

“Where Were You When The World Stopped Turning?” is a song that we do not hear often now, on the radio. Perhaps it should be played more often.

For many, the nightmare goes on, one begun by religious radicals whose God seems to think it is ok to kill and maim. The war is continued by self-proclaimed Christians who think it is their God-appointed duty to get the bad guys. The only trouble is this: when you are killing children and women, and men who are not of the same ilk as the terrorists, then why are you killing, exactly? There have been “mistakes” made, and innocent people have been wounded or slaughtered on all sides.

Are we fighting wars that cannot be won? How does one define a win, when it comes to death, destruction, and misery? In the end, what has been won? … More disabled veterans to fill up the inadequate military hospitals? More people to lie in a hero’s grave?

I fervently believe that we need to get past all of the stupid rhetoric that politicians throw out there, just to get elected. I don’t mean to sound like Pollyanna when I say that minding one’s own business would be a huge step toward world peace. That is what we are trying to achieve, is it not? I have heard “whirled peas” offered as an alternative. Perhaps we should all get out our blenders. The latter would be easier to achieve.

Driving along the easy back roads of Vermont today, adjacent to babbling brooks and covered bridges, with New England Asters adorning the roadsides, we found our own peace today. We were away from the phone, the computer, and the noise of littering teenagers, cluttering up our front yard and sidewalk with their candy wrappers and debris. Civilization is a good thing, in measured doses.

In 1899, Sam Walter Foss, originally from New Hampshire, wrote a poem in which these recurrent lines are featured: “… let me live by the side of the road, And be a friend to man.” That sounds like an ideal endeavor, were it only possible!

In New York, the congestion of so many people huddled together for work and business made the area a prime target. We can’t crow too loudly about the absence of another attack. Whether we like to give credit or not to the Commander-in chief,” there has not been another hit on American soil since that horrendous day of darkening smoke, when pilots went to heaven to meet their allotted number of virgins, the gift for being villains and killing, en masse, in the name of “religion.”

God bless us and keep us safe from those misguided souls who hate all Americans. If it’s a race for heaven, let’s hope they reach their destination  first. Heaven can wait!

Just Like the Last Stitch

Thursday, September 11th, 2008

Just as a quilt or piece of needlework is comprised of many separate stitches, a book is also made up of separate entities: words, sentences, paragraphs, chapters, and then all of the directional components such as table of contents, an index, and list of works cited. Making a quilt and writing a book are similar endeavors, and whether it is the last stitch one is putting in, or the last dot over an “i,” there is a sense of completion and joy when the work is all finished.

One reason for that is that it is downright fun to create, with words or needle, something that has not existed previously. It is a rhapsody when we create a whole, from parts. The process of both endeavors is the important part, and the fun is in the doing.

How many times have I heard someone say to me, “I could never do what you do! I wouldn’t have the patience!” I always feel sorry for the person because I wonder what they do with their time. Is the person stuck in some dronish job every day, just “working for the man,” giving time in exchange for money. Hey, money is not bad, but I’d rather have time. There will always be money and for those who are married to the idea of loving it, they may realize at the end of their mortal existence that one never has enough time and no amount of money will buy more time.

So, here I sit, writing serious, historical essays and books, and sometimes, some silly, not so serious blog entries. There is always a mix in life – “a time to laugh, and a time to cry.”

Now that my “serious” writing project of 355 pages and 340 photos is complete and finished, as of yesterday, as soon as I am able, I’d like to turn to a quilting project.

May all of your stitches be happy ones, and may you “be a stitch” who holds the lives of others together. The last stitch in a quilt always comes as a surprise, and the last word in anything written, has the same effect. We (Jim and I) have arrived at an end point in our latest work, with elation, and with finality. The folks we met along our path was the most fun of all!
Patricia Cummings

Waiting for Godot

Friday, September 5th, 2008

Ah, how the mind tricks us. I have half-remembered the short work, Waiting for Godot, and having read it in high school, believed it to have been written by Moliere. Apparently, Samuel Beckett created this gem of a non-work in which nothing much happens while two men are waiting for Godot.

Godot never shows up.

How often have I or others close to me been promised that someone would meet us at a certain time and it never happened, or else they appeared much later than expected, after having totally disrupted us in the meantime. Such was the case of a woman who promised to visit her dying father and revealed a specific date and time she’d arrive. As the old man waited, and worried, a phone call revealed that she had “changed her mind.” She showed up for the funeral.

The same woman promised to pick up her sister at an airport. Being a no-show and leaving her sister stranded, with a tired, hungry 18 month old, she only appeared after being called and reminded. She was too busy enjoying her pool.

With some people, it is just predictable that they will be late, or that they will never follow through on a promise. Personally, I believe it is important to live up to commitments, and not leave anyone standing around, twiddling their thumbs while “waiting for Godot.” The three words have entered our language and become a metaphor for lackadaisical, lazy, uncommitted people.

In Spanish, the word that means “tomorrow” can have the same connotation. Fluff something off until “tomorrow,” but “tomorrow never comes.”

There is another saying:  “In God’s own time.” None of us fully understands God’s time, as He is on His own schedule, an unannounced one. Scholars have argued about the seven days of creation. Was the world really created in only seven days, as we measure time today? Probably not. A “day” is a measure of the passage of time, but was it really 24 hours?

The best for which we can wish, is that we are not left “waiting for Godot,” and that others will not let us down, now, or when we are about to take our last breath. We can also improve quality of life for other people, as well as lessen their stress, if we only do our part in keeping commitments, and do so in a timely fashion. Three cheers for dependable people!

If “Waiting for Godot” were the basis for creating a small quilt, all the blocks in a time sequence would be the same, two men standing on a corner, doing nothing, and each block could be captioned, “He’s not here yet!!!”

Have any of you had a similar experience? If so, write to: webmaster@quiltersmuse.com

Patricia Cummings

Helen Kelley

Thursday, September 4th, 2008

The shocking news finally reached me today that Helen Kelley, a quilt columnist for Quilter’s Newsletter magazine, passed away on
September 1, 2008. I don’t believe anyone can adequately replace her. She had a knack of telling stories, and it seems that some of the most outlandish things happened to her.

I realize that she was 80, but who counts numbers when someone continues to be as productive as Helen. I met her one time only and enjoyed her company over dinner. I am so glad that she was inducted into the Quilter’s Hall of Fame while she was able to enjoy the fact.

As I’ve said, again and again, it is always later than we think. Where is the lesson in all this, you say? My advice is to make the most of every day because truly, our days, hours, and minutes are numbered.

Make your quilts, make your beds, make your babies. There no time like the present to fully live today.

There are various sites to learn more about Helen, her quilts, her books, and more. Just do a Google search. She was a classy lady and one who will be sorely missed by many.

Patricia Cummings

Quilts from the Selvage Edge

Wednesday, September 3rd, 2008

I stumbled upon the only book so far written by Karen Griska, in a coincidental manner. You see, she calls herself “Quilter’s Muse” and that term popped up in a Google Alert I had set for my official business name that I pay to keep, first registered in New Hampshire in 2002:  “Quilter’s Muse Publications.” In fact, when I looked at her blogsite, it appeared that her choice of quiltersmuse.blogspot was a little too close for comfort, too. I didn’t like it. Would you? I had discussed this with Karen when the situation was first discovered, so this is no news to her.
The other day, we were about to pass Keepsake Quilting, and I asked Jim to stop in. I found Karen’s book and had to add it to my library, even though twenty bucks seemed like a lot of money for such a thin book. An artist cannot have too many muses, any more than a kid cannot have too much candy corn at Halloween.

First, I turned to the back cover where I saw a photo of Mark Lipinski and his dog, adorned with one of Karen’s strip creations. I noticed throughout the book that when a little bit of fabric is showing, as well as the selvage, the quilt becomes more exciting.

I have a friend to whom I’ve been sending all of my selvages, for years. The idea of making a quilt with them is not new. Like almost every idea for quilting, it is a recycled one, just like the use of my business name.

There is a “Quilter’s Muse” (Don Johnson) who sells piano CDs at http://myweb.cableone.net/cranefly/dojomusic.htm, and there is a person who calls herself, “quiltmuse,” who writes quilt related poetry, and has done so for some time now.

In choosing that name, Karen has a lot to do to fill the shoes of those who have gone before. The quilts in her book do remind one of cigar band quilts, as she said, though a little less intensely colorful (those were usually a bright, ochre color).

It’s always fun to see what others are doing, and we all fill a niche in the marketplace. Now that Karen is off the ground, we hope that she will soar to new levels of success and be the best that she can be.

Patricia Cummings, Quilter’s Muse

Labor Day: The Day to Celebrate Workers

Monday, September 1st, 2008

Today, across America, workers are taking a day off on this last official day of summer. The sun in shining here in New England, yet, I can’t help thinking of coal miners working in the belly of the earth. Under blue skies and with a warm breeze blowing, I can’t help but remember the children and adults, working in airless, disease-causing mills such as the Slater Mill in Pawtucket. On this day of Gustav, my heart goes out to the news crews who put themselves in harm’s way to cover storms and natural disasters. Likewise, I remember soldiers now, and then, who have risen to the call of patriotism and duty to their countries, and have upheld their nation’s values by going to war to preserve them.

On this day to celebrate the ordinary worker, I recall the disrespect given to many. I remember a man who spent his life working at a pharmaceutical company only to be told within weeks of his “retirement” that the company no longer had a need for him. His job had been phased out, and he would see no retirement checks.

Food workers come to mind, as well. They put up with a lot of hassles from a demanding, non-appreciate public, and they return home with aching backs and swollen ankles.

Today, I think of college instructors who are urged by parents and administration alike to issue grades of “A,” when a “C” or “D” might be more appropriate for the partying, lazy student who should never have made it to the halls of higher learning, in the first place.

Yes, the American worker has many trials, particularly in a world that thrives on mediocrity and rarely calls anyone to be at their best. The other sad story (the other side of the coin) are those who do give their best and are not adequately rewarded, while others benefit greatly from their labor. In America, one can work one’s heart out and never be adequately compensated.

Some of the best work women can do has no monetary attachment:  raising  children, keeping a clean house, and providing nutritious food. A mother’s work is perhaps the most undervalued, but most important work of all. Whether we look back, or look ahead, we will see that all “work” has intrinsic value. As we take a “break” today from our usual labors, please take a moment to appreciate all the work of others who continue to sustain your life, and who inspire your own work. Happy Labor Day!

Patricia Cummings