Archive for May, 2008

Pills, Pills, and More Pills … Doctors on the Payroll

Sunday, May 18th, 2008

A program aired on PBS last night with Bill Moyers, a long time advocate of health care. The show was a startling revelation only because the guest confirmed something I have suspected all along. Doctors receive incentives (kickbacks … rebates) for prescribing medications. Americans take more pills that any other civilized countries. For this, we only have to look to heavy advertisement campaigns and doctors who have become indiscriminate pill pushers. Turn on the television on any given evening and many possible health problems will be described, including the most intimate concerns, and then a treatment will be suggested. After mentioning a list of possible side effects, as if rattling off the specials of the day on a restaurant menu, the speaker will say, “Ask your doctor if this medication is right for you!”

Supposedly, it is of little or no consequence that the pill you consume might, indeed, be the “final solution,” the equivalent of the “Black Pill” on the television program, “Mash.”

Pills are no laughing matter, unless perhaps one is a pharmacist or other person who stands to gain financially from the millions of dollars that are spent on unnecessary and potentially lethal chemicals that are consumed each year. Why aren’t more people talking about this? They should be. Most folks want to believe that the solution to their woes is only as far away as their own medicine chest.

I have known about this situation for a while now. A doctor asked me if my legs jump at night and before I could answer “no,” she was ready to write me a prescription for RLS (Restless Leg Syndrome) of which I had never heard before. In the same visit, she asked me to hold my hands out straight and thinking that she detected a little “shakiness,” she announced that I am beginning to have Parkinson’s Disease, a statement I do not believe. She advised me that I was a “border line” diabetic and would probably have to start using insulin “the next visit.” However, laboratory work proved results that were all within a normal range.

In the meantime, I had been taking Pravachol for high cholesterol but that drug managed to increase joint pain to an intolerable level. I quit taking the drug and felt instantly better. I also stopped taking an estrogen replacement pill that no one should take for more than five years … after I’d been on it for eight years. That person is no longer my doctor. I feel healthier than ever. Luckily, in a free society, we can make choices.

Perhaps it is time that we take back our lives and stop listening to our formerly “trusted” health advisers, or perhaps find doctors whom we can trust. Of one thing I am certain, I will not live a day or a minute longer than is ordained by a higher power. I am not thrilled about becoming a potential victim of the drug industry, just so someone else can make a dollar.

The guest on the Moyers’ show pointed out that hundreds of people die each year, not because they overdosed on a medication, or didn’t take it properly, but simply because they took a drug. New medications with their catchy names are pumped into the system frequently. The name of the game is money, pure and simple. Think about the chemicals you ingest. That might just save your life.

Put your faith in the Almighty and keep your hand on your wallet. Remember to advocate for yourself, and ask a LOT of questions if a health care provider suggests a new medicine. Know why you are taking a new pill, what side effects it will potentially have, and what the ramifications would be, if you chose not to adhere to that regimen. It’s your life and it’s up to you to live long and live healthy.

Be well.

Patricia Cummings

Online Auctions – the Great Enablers

Friday, May 16th, 2008

Almost anything your heart desires can be located with a few finger strokes on the computer. You can type in the name of a product you’ve barely, or never, heard about, and there you will see it online. I can’t even imagine the number of different products from many countries that are listed. I have purchased Redwork from Germany, books from England, an embroidered, yurt opening, cover from Uzbekistan, and a mola blouse from a Panamanian trader. The possibilities are endless, as well as magnificent, for those who have unusual and very specific interests … like me!

Over the years, I have heard a few grumbles about online transactions. They usually involved fradulent activities such as selling photocopies of written material that is still under copyright. In one case, I knew the person who wrote a book being “stolen,” and I recognized the “cartouche” design encircling the page numbers. It was an unmistakable imprint.

Surprisingly, some sellers believe they can get away with most anything illegal and they won’t be caught. If you find that a seller keeps changing his or her “identity” (code name), that can mean trouble. Luckily, most people are honest in their dealings. At least that has been my experience.

This afternoon, I can’t help but think of the poor ladies who waited for months for the ships from England to arrive at the port of Portsmouth, NH so that they’d have a chance to buy a new sewing needle. My conclusion is that the more we have, the more we take everything for granted. There are many stories about poverty and scrimping and saving in the past. We don’t want to hear any of them today, in our throw away society. I find stories of the past to be enchanting and endearing. How amazed at today’s world, our forebears would be! Need a new sewing needle? Just check an online seller!

Patricia Cummings

The Only Race in Politics: Endurance

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

The current “race” for the White House was not supposed to be about “race” but somehow, that has become the overriding issue, right alongside its sister: “gender.”

We have all watched for months now while Hillary has talked “tough” to prove she is not a weakling, and that she has the right “stuff” to be president. She watched her words, for the most part, but her recent slip about “whites” – “middle class whites” – was just the ammunition her opponents needed to start calling doomsday for her campaign. They said that she had alienated four states, yet to vote, who are heavily populated with African-Americans.

Since when did Americans get so touchy about words? It seems that everyone has been watching and waiting for a slip, not just from Hillary Clinton, but from any of the candidates. With McCain, he is now the person who will keep us in a “100 year war” in Iraq (if that’s what it takes … ).

I have not heard much of what Obama has had to say ever since I realized that much of his rhetoric was borrowed words from his friend, Duval Patrick. I guess the theory was that whatever worked to get Patrick elected, could work again! Perhaps they were both right!

Each of the candidates has endurance, and it is endurance that is keeping Hillary in the race, in spite of the odds. She was, and is, my favorite candidate. Yet, the American people have been voting for “change” over “experience,” for “youth” over “dotty old senior citizens.” When all is said and done, my hope is that both parties can come behind their true leaders to bring America forward in this century, to keep us safe, and to begin to straighten out some of the problems that have plagued us, but have been put on the shelf during this time of political process.

I favor turtles more than jack rabbits. “Slow and steady wins the race.” May the best turtle win.

Patricia Cummings

Descriptive Words

Monday, May 12th, 2008

Pretty, lipstick-wearing, protective, hard-working, self-sacrificing, hilarious, domineering, singing, crossword puzzle solver, perplexing, demanding, self-educated, self-deprecating, proud, generous, attentive, patriotic, church-going, a great cook, a baker of pies and cakes, a newspaper reader, a half-hearted gardener, a Whist player, anti-social, a loner, a Grange member, a Woman’s Club member, an Episcopalian; then, a Roman Catholic, a person who disliked animals, a person with many boyfriends in her youth, a fearful woman who hated snakes, hornets, and anything unknown that moved outdoors, a person who could mend, an embroiderer, a fan of the radio and of TV recipes she’d order, a person who liked “Star” newspaper, and “Days of Our Lives” soap opera . . . and wild birds.

Who was this person? My mother! May she rest in peace.

Patricia Cummings

A Stroll Among the Daffodils

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

This is a photo sent to us by Charlotte Croft. Her husband, Bert, is taking a stroll through a field of daffodils in Vermont. The color of early spring is yellow. In our own yard, we have forsythia, tulips, and daffodils, all dressed in their finest.

Today, being Mother’s Day, I wonder if the Orioles will show up to suck nectar from the apple blossoms in our backyard, as is their custom. It is a little chilly today, only 38 degrees when we got up. I don’t know if the weather will keep them away. They are always fun to see, with their antics of standing on their heads to partake of the juiciest blossoms.

Wherever you are, have a wonderful day, and if you have time, find a patch of daffodils through which to stroll.

Patricia Cummings

Now I Understand Why People “Go Postal!”

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

I was having a fair to midlin’ kind of a day today, doing some cleaning, laundry, and computing. Around noon, the mail arrived. There was nothing of a personal note, but there was a curious bill. I thought, “Hmmm … JC Penney … but I don’t have an account there!”

I immediately recalled the deadbeat that has the same name as me, and how our credit reports got so tangled up within the last few years. It even seemed as though I was a bigamist, as you may recall, as two husbands were listed. I wondered if she was at it again.

I opened the bill to see what I had “bought.” The curious encoding seems to indicate online purchases. Funny, nothing was shipped to this address. Yet, there was my name, and my address, but this was not my transaction, nor my account!

So, I began calling. On the first call, I got a woman speaking in Spanish who said that the number I called was “indisponsible.” I tried to call any and all associated numbers, “tried” being the operative word.

Each time, after going through countless choices, pushing this button or that, I reached a few “people” (the kindest word I can use here). They all demanded my “social” and my birthdate. I don’t casually provide my “social,” as that is a sure ticket to identity theft. I did give my birthdate to one individual who said, “That’s not what is on THIS account!” I said, “Exactly! As I told you, it is NOT my account.” He still needed my “social.”

He transferred me to the “Fraud department,” except I was not connected to a real person but to another round of putting in the account number for an account I don’t own, and pushing 1 for this, 2 for that, etc. It made me dizzy. It seems that I tried to call JC Penney about twenty five times, including calls placed to my local store where I (stupidly) thought I might reach a real person with some actual gray matter between his or her ears. I was mistaken- it was a futile effort.

So, I guess the next step is to take this situation to the police, and then to the Attorney General. These “people” at JC Penney have no idea that I’m not going to put up with their mistreatment. I do not plan to ever do business with them again. In fact, I rarely enter the store, as it is, and when I do, I pay cash. They won’t miss my business.

I’m not sure if this was an “honest mistake” or what it was, on their part. All I can process right now is how frustrated and angry I felt to be pushed around by a bunch of apes, demanding my “social.” I stated that they are just “a voice on the phone.” Who am I to know that they are on the up and up? I probably won’t “go postal” but I sure understand people who do. I, for one, “ain’t gonna take it … any more!” The authorities can deal with their insolence.
P. C.

The Lost Art of Letter Writing

Saturday, May 10th, 2008

On Monday, the cost to mail a first class letter will go up by one penny. It seems not long ago that there was also an increase. No, I’m not writing this blog to complain about the price of stamps. I am simply thinking about letters of the past and how much fun they are to read, years after the fact. Letters transcend the times in which they were written. They reveal what people were thinking about and discussing. For example, my mother’s uncle was quite active in Veteran’s Affairs and in trying to get benefits for them. He often wrote of his challenges in procuring fair and equitable benefits.

Another set of family letters surround the fact that a family member personally knew a man who murdered two young women, and she had even attended the same school dances with him. And, oh, but of course, there were the love letters written by my Dad to Mom, sent along with his poetry.

At any earlier time, the fastest way to get news from here to there was via a telegram. Often, the sentences were short, choppy, and to the point. Some of those pieces of ephemera have stood the test of time, in this family, depending upon their importance.

There is no better way to understand the essence of someone that to read a letter by them. Some letters are too painful to keep. The memory of them is enough. Other letters are cherished, and yet others are destined to become a part of history … because they are written at the time of horrific, unimaginable events like war, or like 9-11.

Is $.42 too much to pay for a stamp? I think not. The rise of prices may be partially due to so many people paying their bills electronically, usurping revenue that used to go directly to the post office. To have our own mail delivered, right to our doors, every day, except for Sunday, seems to be worth the increased price of postage.

What is important to you today? Write about it! Who knows? You may even think about sending a letter – one that is destined to become family history years from now, when your great grandchildren will wonder whether or not you liked strawberry shortcake, what size shoe you took, or what you thought about a woman running for president. Life is in the details!

Patricia Cummings

The Business of Education

Friday, May 9th, 2008

Quilter’s Muse Publications is in the “business” of sharing information. That is our “business.” To that end, we post “free” files to read, “free music” to which to listen, and the only selling that we do is patterns, by special request.

Yet, somehow, we are always receiving requests from guilds to give them free gift baskets, or to place expensive ads in their show bulletins. Since this is not a for-profit business, at this point, how is it that people assume that we can hand out money, left and right? Neither of us were born with a silver spoon in our mouths. I am glad of it.

Giving is a gift one gives oneself. Do you know why? Giving is empowering because it makes us feel good. So, personally, we give our talents of writing and photography and when we do that, we give away our time, and in so doing, that means that we give a part of our lives. I feel that we are generous, not in providing monetary support, but generous in spirit. We do things that count; and we give things that others perhaps cannot provide, either because they do not have the time, the knowledge, or the ability.

It rankles my feathers, so to speak, to be asked for money or goods. My gifts are cerebral, that is, they are of the mind.

I am happy that there are people who have been blessed with a lot of money. That is not me, and I am absolutely not complaining about that. We have books, fabrics, flowers in the yard … we have love, and laughter. Hard work keeps us on our toes and keeps us centered on what is important … to us. We don’t think of money as an end in itself, but as a useful tool for buying the basic necessities of life.

Yes, Education has always been important to me and I’ve passed those values and high standards on to the next generation. There is nothing better than knowledge. I love books and I could live in a library. In fact, I worked part-time in the Interlibrary Loan department when I was at the University; and full-time one summer.

In this life, one must decide what is important. We can’t have everything. It’s important to like what you do have already. Perhaps we don’t fit the idea of what others expect us to be, and isn’t that the understatement of the year? We are fiercely our own personalities, and few even attempt to understand us (Jim and I, that is). That’s ok. We are lost in our “own little world,” often with our “noses in books,” and furthermore, we are very happy about that!

Patricia Cummings

Three Things You Must Do

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

In Spanish, there is a saying that goes like this: Before you die, you must do three things – plant a tree, have a baby, and write a book. I have always liked this thought, and furthermore, it makes a lot of sense. I can happily say that I fulfilled ALL the “requirements,” a long time ago. That is not to say that I will never plant another tree, or write another book. My “baby” is in his thirties and I will never have another. We take what is allotted to us in life, and I was meant to mother only one child. That’s ok.

The Spanish saying mentions writing a book. Many people write books, some about obscure topics. Who would think that an entire book would be devoted to “Ferns and Fern Allies of New Hampshire”? The diversity of people’s interests never cease to amaze me! We all have a passion for something. What’s yours?

My mother collected cookbooks and crossword puzzle books. My father gathered books about literature, poetry, religion, public speaking, politics, money management, and how to improve one’s memory.

Whether we realize it or not, we are all experts about something whether that be car maintenance, how to tend a garden, or the care and nurturing of a child … the field for potential book subjects is unlimited.

If you are not currently in the mood to write a book, do more reading and study, and thinking. Perhaps, you’ve done something, like served in a war, that was a unique experience, or at least unique as seen from your perspective. Before you think of crossing to the other side, write that book!

Anyone can plant a tree, and in fact, little spruce trees are often given away at certain shops on Arbor Day. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent, and all it takes is a quick trip to your local department store to figure out that it would have been better, had someone skipped that part of the equation. However, for many people, writing a book is possible, and could even be therapeutic and cathartic, or at the very least, instructive.

Three little things: plant a tree, have a child (or nurture one), and write a book. Having done all that during what seems a lifetime ago, I think I’ll just mosey off now to take a “siesta.”

Patricia Cummings

New Hampshire, Past and Present

Monday, May 5th, 2008

When I was a child, living on the farm, we usually traveled the “new” turnpike into Manchester, about 13 miles away, to food shop. There, my mother would buy groceries, lingering with the “meat man” to discuss the freshness of the swordfish or the lamb roast. To make sure the hamburger was fresh, she ask that a roast be ground. Grocery shopping was an outing and a chance for her to “discuss” food. She often got into a debate about whether a sweet potato was really a sweet potato, or if it was a yam, and she claimed to know the difference, being from the South and all.

At a tender age, I had to be transported by bus to the high school I attended, also in Manchester. So, come rain, hail, sleet, or snow, I’d walk about a mile, past a few farms in the wee hours of morning light … in a mini-skirt, no less. Yes, those were the 1960s and minis were in. I sewed a few myself from wool yardage, but they being short … well, say no more! It’s a wonder my knees weren’t permanently frozen solid.

Today, I am thinking about all the open space we once had in New Hampshire. On my morning walk, I’d be greeted by guinea hens, chickens, a friendly goat, and not-so-friendly “watch” geese, and I’d see steers in the field. Back home, I’d leave behind three cows, two horses, chickens, feisty roosters, “barn” cats, and a rabbit, when I trudged down the road with my heavy book bag.

To drive past those same places today is a bit of a shock. There are no farms. However, there ARE houses, houses that have been plunked into the middle of subdivided fields. On the back field, our family farm now sports a new mini-mansion with a surround porch and a four car garage in the field where I once rode my horse, “Montana Red.”

Now, the neighborhood is a microcosm of what has repeatedly happened in my home state. There are few farmers left that grow food, or sell milk. Why, not too long ago, there was talk of taking over an apple orchard to turn it into a development. The people of Concord rose to the occasion and “saved” the orchard.

I believe that high tech this, and high tech that, is fine. Technology promotes innovation and in many ways, makes life a lot easier. I wouldn’t trade our microwave for all the tea in China. However, while we are attempting to improve our I-pods, and make even faster computers, I think we should begin to imagine what life might be like without food.

Traditionally, farmers provided food. The world is in trouble. There are far more pollutants finding their way into food sources. Alarmists have been ringing their bells about the pending consequences of a decreasing oversight concerning food production. We are now turning corn into ethanol, which to some who have thought about the subject, seems obscene. I agree, when so many of the world’s poor are hungry.

In many ways, I am happy that I lived at a time when life itself seemed to make more sense. Today, tearing down all the trees, and converting farm land to big house lots for “country homes,” does not jibe the the reality of our need to conserve. Conservation should be our watchword, if not for ourselves, then for the birds and wildlife and every living entity that shares our planet Earth. “She” has been abundant and giving, but even the best drink of water reaches an end and the glass become empty.

What has made New Hampshire beautiful in the past has been its natural areas, rugged spaces, and yes, it’s farms. We always welcome tourists, but lately, we hope to welcome them and send them back to where they came from, before they develop a thought of moving here.

As too many cooks spoil the broth, too many people spoil my home state. So, if you’d like to ski, to swim, or hike, or visit the Museums here, please find your way to the Granite State. We will be cordial and we will be happy to accept your tourist dollars. New Hampshire is a great state and we’d like to retain some of its natural flavor cultivated by the local characters who are the states’ own sons and daughters. New Hampshire has much to offer, as does the place to which you will return.

Patricia Cummings